Words To Live By

Words To Live By I’ll give you some advice about life. Eat more roughage; Do more than others expect you to do and do it pains; Remember what life tells you; Don’t take to heart every thing you hear. Don’t spend all that you have. Don’t sleep as long as you want; Whenever you say” I love you”, please say it honestly; Whevever you say” I’m sorry”, please look into the other person’s eyes; Fall in love at first sight; Don’t neglect dreams; Love deeply and ardently, even if there is pain, but this is the way to make your life complete; Find a way to settle, not to dispute; Never judge people by their appearance; Speak slowly, but think quickly; When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, simle and say, “Why do you want to know?” Remember that the man who can shoulder the most risk will gain the deepest love and the supreme accomplishment; Call you mother on the phone. If you can’t, you may think of her in your heart; When someone sneezes say, “God bless you”; If you fail, don’t forget to learn your lesson; Remember the three “ respects” .Respect yourself, respect others, stand on dignity and pay attention to your behavior; Don’t let a little dispute break up a great friendship; Whenever you find your wrongdoing, be quick with reparation! 生活的忠告 给你生活的忠告 多吃些粗粮; 给别人比他们期望的更多,并用心去做; 熟记生活告诉你的一切; 不要轻信你听到的每件事,不要花光你的所有,不要想睡多久就睡多久; 无论何时说“我爱你”,请真心实意; 无论何时说“对不起”,请看对方的眼睛; 相信一见钟情; 请不要忽视梦想; 深情热烈地爱,也许会受伤,但这是使人生完整的唯一方法; 用一种明确的方法解决争议,不要冒犯; 永远不要以貌取人; 慢慢地说,但要迅速地想; 当别人问你不想回答的问题时,笑着说:“你为什么想知道?” 记住:那些敢于承担最大风险的人才能得到最深的爱和最大的成就; 给妈妈打电话,如果不行,至少在心里想着她; 当别人打喷嚏时,说一声“上帝保佑”; 如果你失败了,千万别忘了汲取教训; 记住三个“尊”: 尊重你自己; 尊重别人; 保持尊严, 对自己的行为负责; 不要让小小的争端损毁了一场伟大的友谊; 无论何时你发现自己做错了,竭尽所能去弥补;动作要快! A psalm of life 人生礼颂

Life Tips

You!

You! 
Consider… YOU. In all time before now and in all time to come, there has never been and will never be anyone just like you. You are unique in the entire history and future of the universe. Wow! Stop and think about that. You’re better than one in a million, or a billion, or a gazillion…  试想一下……你!一个空前绝后的你,不论是以往还是将来都不会有一个跟你一模一样的人。你在历史上和宇宙中都是独一无二的。哇!想想吧,你是万里挑一、亿 里挑一、兆里挑一的。  You are the only one like you in a sea of infinity! 在无穷无尽的宇宙中,你是举世无双的。 You’re amazing! You’re awesome! And by the way, TAG, you’re it. As amazing and awesome as you already are, you can be even more so. Beautiful young people are the whimsey of nature, but beautiful old people are true works of art. But you don’t become "beautiful" just by virtue of the aging process.   你是了不起的!你是卓越的!没错,就是你。你已经是了不起的,是卓越的,你还可以更卓越更了不起。美丽的年轻人是大自然的奇想,而美丽的老人却是艺术的杰 作。但你不会因为年龄的渐长就自然而然地变得“美丽”。  Real beauty comes from learning, growing, and loving in the ways of life. That is the Art of Life. You can learn slowly, and sometimes painfully, by just waiting for life to happen to you. Or you can choose to accelerate your growth and intentionally devour life and all it offers. You are the artist that paints your future with the brush of today. 真正的美丽源于生命里的学习、成长和热爱。这就是生命的艺术。你可以只听天由命, 慢慢地学,有时候或许会很痛苦。又或许你可以选择加速自己的成长,故意地挥霍生活及其提供的一切。你就是手握今日之刷描绘自己未来的艺术家。 Paint a Masterpiece.   画出一幅杰作吧。  God gives every bird its food, but he doesn’t throw it into its nest. Wherever you want to go, whatever you want to do, it’s truly up to you. 上帝给了鸟儿食物,但他没有将食物扔到它们的巢里。不管你想要去哪里,不管你想要做什么,真正做决定的还是你自己

 Who are YOU??

Think it over……

Think it over…… Today we have higher buildings and wider highways,but shorter temperaments and narrower points of view; We spend more,but enjoy less; We have bigger houses,but smaller famillies; We have more compromises,but less time; We have more knowledge,but less judgment; We have more medicines,but less health; We have multiplied out possessions,but reduced out values; We talk much,we love only a little,and we hate too much; We reached the Moon and came back,but we find it troublesome to cross our own street and meet our neighbors; We have conquered the uter space,but not our inner space; We have highter income,but less morals; These are times with more liberty,but less joy; We have much more food,but less nutrition; These are the days in which it takes two salaries for each home,but divorces increase; These are times of finer houses,but more broken homes; That’s why I propose,that as of today; You do not keep anything for a special occasion.because every day that you live is a SPECIAL OCCASION. Search for knowledge,read more ,sit on your porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs; Spend more time with your family and friends,eat your favorite foods,visit the places you love; Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment;not only about survival; Use your crystal goblets.Do not save your best perfume,and use it every time you feel you want it. Remove from your vocabulary phrases like"one of these days"or "someday"; Let’s write that letter we thought of writing "one of these days"! Let’s tell our families and friends how much we love them; Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life; Every day,every hour,and every minute is special; And you don’t know if it will be your last. 好好想想 今天我们拥有了更高层的楼宇以及更宽阔的公路,但是我们的性情却更为急躁,眼光也更加狭隘; 我们消耗的更多,享受到的却更少; 我们的住房更大了,但我们的家庭却更小了; 我们妥协更多,时间更少; 我们拥有了更多的知识,可判断力却更差了; 我们有了更多的药品,但健康状况却更不如意; 我们拥有的财富倍增,但其价值却减少了; 我们说的多了,爱的却少了,我们的仇恨也更多了; 我们可以往返月球,但却难以迈出一步去亲近我们的左邻右舍; 我们可以征服外太空,却征服不了我们的内心; 我们的收入增加了,但我们的道德却少了; 我们的时代更加自由了,但我们拥有的快乐时光却越来越少; 我们有了更多的食物,但所能得到的营养却越来越少了; 现在每个家庭都可以有双份收入,但离婚的现象越来越多了; 现在的住房越来越精致,但我们也有了更多破碎的家庭; 这就是我为什么要说,让我们从今天开始; 不要将你的东西为了某一个特别的时刻而预留着,因为你生活的每一天都是那么特别; 寻找更我的知识,多读一些书,坐在你家的前廊里,以赞美的眼光去享受眼前的风景,不要带上任何功利的想法; 花多点时间和朋友与家人在一起,吃你爱吃的食物,去你想去的地方; 生活是一串串的快乐时光;我们不仅仅是为了生存而生存; 举起你的水晶酒杯吧。不要吝啬洒上你最好的香水,你想用的时候就享用吧! 从你的词汇库中移去所谓的“有那么一天”或者“某一天”; 曾打算“有那么一天”去写的信,就在今天吧! 告诉家人和朋友,我们是多么地爱他们; 不要延迟任何可以给你的生活带来欢笑与快乐的事情; 每一天、每一小时、每一分钟都是那么特别; 你无从知道这是否最后刻。

Enjoy life, don’t leave things to a specific time because every second is special.

The Difference Between Love And Like….

The Difference Between Love And Like….

In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster.
But in front of the person you like, you get happy.
In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring
But in front on the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush.
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.
In front of the person you love, you can’t say everything on your mind.
But in front of the person you like, you can.  

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy.
But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.
The person you love comes into you mind every 2minutes.
You can’t look straight into the eyes of the one you love.
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying, you cry with him.
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.
The feeling of love starts from the eye.
And feeling of like comes from the ear.
So if you stop liking a person you used to like,
All you need to do is to cover your ears.
But if you try to close your eyes,
Love turns into a teardrop and remains in your heart forever after. 

What I Have Lived for 我的人生追求 – Bertrand Russell 罗素

What I Have Lived for  我的人生追求 – Bertrand Russell 罗素 Three passions, simple but overwhelmingly strong, have governed my life: the longing for love, the search for knowledge, and unbearable  pity for the suffering of mankind. These passions, in a wayward course,are over a deep ocean of anguish, reaching to the very verge of despair.   有三种简单然而无比强烈的激情左右了我的一生;对爱的渴望,对知识的探索和对人类苦难的难以忍受的怜悯。这些激情像飓风,反复地吹拂过深重的苦海,濒于绝 境。  I have sought love, first, because it brings ecstasy-ecstasy so great that I would often have sacrificed all my rest of life for a few hours  of this joy. I have sought it ,next because it relieves loneliness-that terrible loneliness in which one shivering consciousness looks over the rim of the world into the co1d unfathomable lifeless abyss. I have sought it, finally, because in the union of love I have seen, in a mystic miniature, the prefiguring vision of the heaven that saints and poets have imagined. This is what I sought, and though it might seem too good for human life, this is what-at last-I have found.   我寻找爱,首先是因为它使人心醉神迷。这种陶醉是如此的美妙,使我愿意牺牲所有的余生去换取几个小时这样的欣喜。 我寻找爱,还因为它解除孤独(在可怕的孤独中,一颗颤抖的灵魂从世界的边缘看到冰冷、无底、死寂的深渊。最后,我寻找爱,还因为在爱的交融中,神秘而又具 体入微地,我看到了圣贤和诗人们想象出的天堂的前景。 这就是我所寻找的,而且,虽然对人生来说似乎过于美妙,这也是我终于找到了的。  With equa1 passion I have sought knowledge.  I have wished to understand the hearts of men. I have wished to know why the stars  shine. And I have tried to apprehend the Pythagorean power by which number holds sway above the flux. A 1ittle of this, but not much, I have achieved.   以同样的激情我探索知识。我希望能够理解人类的心灵。我希望能够知道群星为何闪烁。我试图领悟毕达哥拉斯所景仰的数字力量,它支配着此消彼长。仅在不大的 一定程度上,我达到了此目的。  Love and knowledge, so far they were possible, led upward toward the heavens. But always pity brought me back to earth. Echoes of cries of pain reverberate in my heart. Children in famine, victims tortured by oppressors, helpless old people a hated burden to their pain make a mockery of what human life should be. I long to alleviate the evi1, but I can’t, and I too suffer.   爱和知识,只要有可能,通向着天堂。但是怜悯总把我带回尘世。痛苦呼喊的回声回荡在我的内心。忍饥挨饿的孩子,惨遭压迫者摧残的受害者,被儿女们视为可憎 的负担的痛苦无助的老人,使人类所应有的生活成为了笑柄。我渴望能够减少邪恶,但是我无能为力,而且我自己也在忍受折磨。  This has been my life. I have found it worth living, and wou1d gladly live it again if the chance were offered me.    这就是我的一生。我发现它值得一过。如果再给我一次机会,我会很高高兴地再活它一次。

Love is Special

Love is Special

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
爱一个人却得不到爱的回报是令人伤心的。更痛苦的是,爱上一个人却没有勇气让这人知道你的感受。
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
也许上帝希望我们在邂逅合适的人以前先遇到一些不合适的人。这样当我们遇到合适的人时,我们将知道对这份礼物心怀感激了。 
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
爱是当你抽离了感情,激情和浪漫后,却发觉你依然关注着的那个人。
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never means to be and you just have to let go.
生命中的伤悲莫过于遇到了一个对你很重要的人,却最终发现错与无缘,终究不得不放弃。
When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
当幸福的一扇门关闭时,另一扇门便会敞开,因为我们通常都凝视着那扇紧闭的门太久了,却没注意到另一扇门已经为我们敞开。
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
最好的朋友即时只是同你一起坐在门廊前默默地打秋千,然后离开,也会让你感觉到那是你有过的最好交谈。
It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
事实上直到失去的时候我们才知道自己曾拥有过什么;但另一个事实是,只有等到出现使我们才知道自己所盼望的是什么。
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back! Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.
将你全部的爱都给与一个人,并不能保证别人会回报以爱!不要期待爱的回报;仅仅等待爱在你们的心中成长。如果事与愿违,你也应该为你心中有爱而满足。
There are things you’d love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.
也许你喜欢的人没有从你说出那些你爱听的话,但是对你的肺腑之言你却不要充耳不闻。
Never say good-bye if you still want to try.
Never give up if you still feel you can go on.
Never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
如果还想努力,你就别说再见。
如果仍想继续,你就别轻易放弃。
如果不能放弃,你就别说再也不爱他。
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
迷上一个人只需一分钟,喜欢上一个人需要一小时,爱上一个人需要一天,但是忘记一个人却需要一辈子。
Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t  go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
不要追求外表,它们具有欺骗性;不要追求财富your tomorrows ,它最终也会消亡。寻找使你欢笑的那个人吧,因为仅仅一个微笑就会使黑暗变得光明。
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because
you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do.
梦着你的梦想,去你想去的地方,做你想做的人吧,因为你只有一生和一个机会去做所有你想做的事情。
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough hope to make you happy.
你可能已经拥有了足够多的兴奋让你感到甜蜜,有足够多的磨难让你磨练得更坚强,有足够多的悲哀让你更富有同情心,有足够的希望让你更想快乐。
Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
经常设身处地为他人着想。己所不欲,勿施于人。
A careless world may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.
无心之语可能导致不和;无情的话可能毁掉一生;及时的良言可以缓解紧张;爱的心声可以宽慰心灵。
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twists them with our own image-otherwise; we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
爱之初,让我们所爱的人保持他们的本色,不要把他们扭曲成我们自己的模样,否则我们所爱的仅仅是我们在他们身上的影子。
The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
最快乐的人不必事事尽善尽美,他们只会让大部分事情顺其自然。
When you were born, you were crying and everything around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
当你呱呱落地时,你大声地哭泣,你周围的每个人都朝你微笑。而当你走完余生时,你是唯一微笑的人,你周围的人却要为你落泪。
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t get on well in life
unless you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
锦绣前程建立在对过去的宽怀之上,如果往昔的事物与烦恼总也不能释怀,生活就难以顺心如意

Love Your Life

Love Your Life By Henry David Thoreau However mean your life is,meet it and live it ;do not shun it and call it hard names.It is not so bad as you are.It looks poorest when you are richest.The fault-finder will f ind faults in paradise.Love your life,poor as it is.You may perhaps have some pleasant,thrilling,glorious hourss,even in a poor-house.The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the alms-house as brightly as from the rich man’s abode;the snow melts before its door as early in the spring.I do not see but a quiet mind may live as contentedly there,and have as cheering thoughts,as in a palace.The town’s poor seem to me often to live the most independent lives of any.May be they are simply great enough to receive without misgiving.Most think that they are above being supported by the town;but it often happens  that they are not above  supporting themselves by dishonest means.which should be more disreputable.Cultivate poverty like a garden herb,like sage.Do not trouble yourself much to get new things,whether clothes or friends,Turn the old,return to them.Things do not change;we change.Sell your clothes and keep your thoughts. 热爱生活 享利.大卫.梭罗 不论你的生活如何卑贱,你要面对它生活,不要躲避它,更别用恶言咒骂它。它不像你那样坏。你最富有 的时候,倒是看似最穷。爱找缺点的人就是到天堂里也能找到缺点。你要爱你的生活,尽管它贫穷。甚至 在一个济贫院里,你也还有愉快、高兴、光荣的时候。夕阳反射在济贫院的窗上,像身在富户人家窗上一 样光亮;在那门前,积雪同在早春融化。我只看到,一个从容的人,在哪里也像在皇宫中一样,生活得心 满意足而富有愉快的思想。城镇中的穷人,我看,倒往往是过着最独立不羁的生活。也许因为他们很伟大, 所以受之无愧。大多数人以为他们是超然的,不靠城镇来支援他们;可是事实上他们是往往利用了不正当 的手段来对付生活,他们是毫不超脱的,毋宁是不体面的。视贫穷如园中之花而像圣人一样耕植它吧!不 要找新的花样,无论是新的朋友或新的衣服,来麻烦你自己。找旧的,回到那里去。万物不变,是我们在 变。你的衣服可以卖掉,但要保留你的思想。