封闭的人生 VS 开放的人生

封闭的人生 VS 开放的人生 人,有两种面对社会和成长的方式,一种是将自己封闭在狭小的空间里,做一个清高不驯/不食人间烟火的洒脱高人;另一种就是面对社会,不断的去认识和成长。

Love is Special

Love is Special

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never means to be and you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back! Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.
There are things you’d love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.
Never say good-bye if you still want to try.
Never give up if you still feel you can go on.
Never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
不要追求外表,它们具有欺骗性;不要追求财富your tomorrows ,它最终也会消亡。寻找使你欢笑的那个人吧,因为仅仅一个微笑就会使黑暗变得光明。
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because
you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough hope to make you happy.
Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
A careless world may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twists them with our own image-otherwise; we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
When you were born, you were crying and everything around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t get on well in life
unless you let go of your past failures and heartaches.


思绪 当我想坐下来想写一些东西的时候,思绪却乱的无从理起。 内心的燥热很难找到丝毫的平静,当在其中偶得清闲时,却迷茫的已不知从何做起。 一个人的内心充盈才是真正的美满和幸福,当找到那强大的力量的时候,自然会情定从容而无所不能。 必须找清楚自己的方向,为之而不懈的努力,这才是生活和生命付给自己的意义。战斗与体验胜利的快乐。 人最大的敌人确实是自己,如果能战胜自己,就有了无坚不摧的力量! 如何去扩展自己,生活的态度;那是为了什么呢? 人,之所以迷茫的原因是因为没有目标,或者没有去为目标执着不懈的追求! 晚安,歇笔! 新的生活,启动!!!

Got Promotion after 2 Years in Oracle

Got Promotion after 2 Years in Oracle This month, I got the promotion from Associated Member of Technical Staff to Application Developer after two years working in ORACLE. Congratulate myself! Will make more achievements in the next year!