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How To Be a Better Person: 101 Ways

TPEB(The Personal Excellence Blog)一直以来都有很多高质量的文章,最新的这篇文章是关于如何是自己变的更好的,读了前面几段,觉得写的内容会吸引人,索性翻译给大家。




How does one become a better person?



I remember when I was studying in university, I didn’t like myself very much. I was rude, selfish, emotionally stingy, self-centered, judgmental, highly critical, very obnoxious, and arrogant.




When I think back about it, a lot of that came from insecurity with myself – a lack of self-esteem. I didn’t like myself, and this projected in my behavior toward others. I was dissatisfied with things about me, and hence I was dissatisfied with things about other people.



Subsequently, I decided to work on becoming a better person. I didn’t like who I was becoming and I wanted to change that. After all, it’s quite miserable to live a life of self-hate. They say misery loves company, but I think the company misery attracts is self-debilitating in nature. It only makes you more and more unhappy, and no sooner turns you into a wrenched sight. Not a pretty vision, me thinks.



Today, I’m a lot happier with who I am. I can’t say that I’m perfect or that I’ve achieved my ideal persona, because there’s still so much I’ve to work on. I also think that becoming a better person is an ongoing goal to be worked on, and there’s never a real end point to reach.



In this massive list post (yet another in the 101 tips series! Past sister articles include: 101 Things To Do Before You Die  101 Most Inspiring Quotes of All Time  101 Important Questions To Ask Yourself In Life  101 Ways To Live Your Life to the Fullest), I share with you 101 ways to be a better person.  If you just follow a tip a day, you’ll go a long way towards becoming a better, more likable, person. Remember this isn’t about making yourself liked by others – but about becoming someone you truly love and adore, which will in turn attract the right people and opportunities into your life.