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How To Be a Better Person: 101 Ways

TPEB(The Personal Excellence Blog)一直以来都有很多高质量的文章,最新的这篇文章是关于如何是自己变的更好的,读了前面几段,觉得写的内容会吸引人,索性翻译给大家。

接下来的八月份有个活动,希望大家都能够参加。

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How does one become a better person?

一个人如何变成一个更好的人?

 

I remember when I was studying in university, I didn’t like myself very much. I was rude, selfish, emotionally stingy, self-centered, judgmental, highly critical, very obnoxious, and arrogant.

我记得当我读大学的时候,我不是很喜欢我自己。我比较祖鲁,自私,冷漠,自我中心,吹毛求疵,很不愉快和自大。

 

 

When I think back about it, a lot of that came from insecurity with myself – a lack of self-esteem. I didn’t like myself, and this projected in my behavior toward others. I was dissatisfied with things about me, and hence I was dissatisfied with things about other people.

当我回想起那些的时候,才知道其中的很多都来自于不安全感——缺乏自尊。我不爱我自己,而这点把我的行为投射到了别人身上。我对自己股满意,所以对其他人或者事情也很不满意

 

Subsequently, I decided to work on becoming a better person. I didn’t like who I was becoming and I wanted to change that. After all, it’s quite miserable to live a life of self-hate. They say misery loves company, but I think the company misery attracts is self-debilitating in nature. It only makes you more and more unhappy, and no sooner turns you into a wrenched sight. Not a pretty vision, me thinks.

随后,我决定做一个更好的人。因为我不喜欢这样下去的我,我需要改变这种状态。总之,讨厌自己的生活是非常悲惨的。人们说悲惨会锻炼人,但我认为悲惨会相互吸引并自然的削弱自己。这只能是你越来越不幸福,过不了多久就把你变成视野模糊,而非越来视野清晰,我认为。

 

Today, I’m a lot happier with who I am. I can’t say that I’m perfect or that I’ve achieved my ideal persona, because there’s still so much I’ve to work on. I also think that becoming a better person is an ongoing goal to be worked on, and there’s never a real end point to reach.

今天,我很高兴我现在的状态。我并不是说我很完美了,或者我已经实现了理想的个人特质,因为还有很多值得改进的地方。我也在想成为一个更好的人是一个不断前进的过程而非有个到达的终点。

 

In this massive list post (yet another in the 101 tips series! Past sister articles include: 101 Things To Do Before You Die  101 Most Inspiring Quotes of All Time  101 Important Questions To Ask Yourself In Life  101 Ways To Live Your Life to the Fullest), I share with you 101 ways to be a better person.  If you just follow a tip a day, you’ll go a long way towards becoming a better, more likable, person. Remember this isn’t about making yourself liked by others – but about becoming someone you truly love and adore, which will in turn attract the right people and opportunities into your life.

在这个厚重的文章列表里面,我和你们共享了101条可以是自己变的更好的方法。如果你每天按照一条来做,你将会花一段行程去变的更好,更可爱。但记住目的并不是让你变的被别人喜欢,而是关于变成你真正爱,真正接受的一个人,而这些东西会在以后的生活中给你吸引来正确的人和机会。

当你遇到那个人的时候,你就能知道,就能感觉出来。

在没有谈恋爱以前,千万别去设定标准,例如Ta必须是什么职业,什么收入,什么背景等。

因为,当你遇到那个人的时候,你就能知道,就能感觉出来。

如果用这些限制条件去找到一个符合标准的,没准你会说服自己去爱Ta,也往往无意识的欺骗自己Ta爱你。

 

两个人的爱情要走下去,一辈子。仅仅这些是完全不够的!需要的更多!